元彼と復縁する方法まとめ!きっかけ作りなど復縁の可能性をあげる秘訣

元彼と復縁したいと思いながらも、モヤモヤを抱えている女性はとても多いもの。

でもこの復縁のまとめを参考にしてみれば元彼との復縁がスムーズに出来るはず!

元彼と復縁したいと思ったことはありませんか?

元彼と復縁したいと思うのは、どんな時でしょうか。

まさかこんな時に思うなんて…という時に、元彼との復縁を願う自分を知る場合も。

 

一緒に行った場所に一人で行った時

たまたま用事があって、以前元彼と一緒に行った場所に一人で行く時も。

こういう時に元彼との楽しい時間を思い出す女性は多いでしょう。

そして一人でいることの淋しさを感じるのもこういう時

 

元彼とのメッセージを読んだ時

元彼とのやりとりが残っていると、何気なく読む場合もありますよね。

その時に「この時は楽しかったなぁ」とふと元彼を思い出して、もう一度やり直せたらいいのに…と思う場合も。

 

元彼に似た人を街で見た時

元彼に似た人を偶然に街で見た時に、自分の心がかなりドキドキするのを感じて「あれっ私元彼と復縁したいと思っているんだ…」と自分の気持ちに気が付くケースもあるのです。

 

まずは一回冷静になろう

冷静にならずに、勢いに流されそうになる時も人にはあります。

でも一度冷静になった方が正しい道に進める場合も多いでしょう。冷静になる方法とは。

 

元彼の連絡先を消してみる

元彼の連絡先を消せるかどうか、これも一つのバロメーターです。

消せないのは、元彼との復縁を望む気持ちがあるから。

元彼の連絡先を消せない事実を冷静に受け止めてみましょう。

 

友達と過ごしてみる

一人でいると元彼のことばかりを考えてしまう女性もいるでしょう。

でも友達と過ごすと、楽しくて充実した時間になるはず。元彼に対しても冷静になれるのです。

 

元彼からもらったものを整理してみる

元彼からのプレゼントや手紙など、元彼からもらったものや思い出の品を整理してみましょう。

無理に捨てなくても良いのですが、整理する時に自然に冷静になれるもの。

この時にはこうだったなぁと客観的に二人について思い出せるのです。

 

元彼との復縁には時間が必要

元彼と復縁がしたい!と思うと、今すぐにでも何かしなければと思う気持ちにもなるでしょう。

でも元彼との復縁には少し時間を置いたほうが良いもの。

それには理由があるのです。

 

元彼に対しての思いを見つめ直せる

自分の中で、本当に元彼が好きなのかを時間を置けば、見つめ直せます。

勢いだけで思っているわけではなくて、この気持ちが本物かどうかも分かってくるでしょう。

すぐに復縁をしようと動いてしまうと、本当の気持ちが見えないまま行動をしてしまう可能性も。

 

お互いの大切さについて考えられる

お互いに大切だと思っているのか、そういう存在なのかを、時間をあけると分かるのです。

離れてみて相手の良さが分かる場合も。

これは相手にも言えること。お互いの大切さについて知るため、少し離れてみましょう。

 

別れの原因を振りかえろう

別れの原因についてあまり考えたくない気持ちもあるでしょう。

でも別れの原因を理解するのはとても大切です。別れの原因を振り返るためにも時間が必要になるもの

 

別れた理由を明確にしよう

少し時間を置いたほうが、別れた理由をはっきりさせられるもの。

別れた原因をうやむやにして復縁をしようとしても、また同じ理由で別れてしまうかもしれません。

なぜ別れたのかをしっかり理解するためにも、時間をかけるようにしましょう。

 

別れた原因を振りかえる大切さ

別れた原因を振り返ることが出来たのなら、それは自分の中で少し落ち着きが出てきた証です。

別れた原因を振り返る自分になれた場合には、自分に非があったのか、相手に非があったのか、もしくはどちらも悪かったのかなどが分かるはず。

 

別れの原因を改善する

別れの原因を知っても直す気が無いのなら、また喧嘩をしたり別れたりする場合もあるのです。

直せるところは直すようにしてから、復縁に臨みましょう。

 

自分の性格に問題があった場合

相手のことが好きでつい束縛をしてしまった場合には、もう少し相手を自由にさせてあげるように意識しましょう。

相手にとって重い存在になってしまったと謝るようにすれば、復縁の可能性が高くなります。

 

相手を裏切るようなことをした場合

相手に黙って男性と出かけたのがバレたり、やりとりをしているのが知られたりして別れてしまったような二人もいるでしょう。

この場合には、相手が自分を裏切ったつもりはなくても、相手はそう思ってしまったのですから、今後は彼氏一筋になると伝えましょう。

 

自分磨きをしよう

自分磨きをしてから、元彼と復縁をしようとした方が、復縁がうまくいきやすいのです。

別れてから綺麗になったと思わせるような女性になりたいですね。

 

見た目から変えてみよう

ダイエットが必要だと思ったのなら、すこしダイエットもしてみましょう。

自分なりに目標を決めて、この目標を達成したら元彼に連絡を取る!と決めたら、目標を達成しようとして頑張れるものです。

痩せた自分は自信が持てるため、連絡もしやすくなるはず。

 

オシャレで綺麗になろう!

ファッションやメイクについて、少し研究してみましょう。

彼氏の前で本当に女性らしく出来ていたかな…とここで反省する女性もいるかも。

付き合いが長くなると、つい気を抜いてしまうもの。そうならないようにオシャレで綺麗な女性を目指してみましょう。

 

成長した自分を知ってもらうのが、元彼との復縁への最後の一歩

成長した自分を元彼に見てもらいたい!と思うのなら、ついにこれが連絡のタイミングかもしれません。

元彼に自分が変わったというアピールをしてみましょう。

 

元彼に自撮り写真を送る

久し振り!とメッセージを書いて、自分の写真を送ってみましょう。

写真を見て「綺麗になったな!」と元彼が思ってくれたら◎。

 

友達と一緒にグループで会ってみる

元彼と二人きりで会いにくい時には、友達と一緒にグループで飲み会を開いてみましょう。

それなら元彼も来てくれるはずです。ここで素敵になった自分をアピールしましょう。

 

どんな連絡をすればいい?

連絡をするには、タイミングが大切です。

どのようなタイミングで連絡をすると良いのでしょうか。

 

元彼の誕生日

元彼の誕生日は、誕生日を覚えていますアピールにもなりますので、復縁のチャンスとしてはベストです。お誕生日おめでとう!とだけ書いて送ってみましょう。

ここで返信が来れば、そこからやりとりを長くしていけるはず。

 

綺麗な景色を見た時

綺麗な景色を見たら「急にごめんね。元気?」とメッセージをしてみましょう。

どうしたの?と返事が来たら「綺麗な景色を見せたいから、写真送るね」と伝えて夕日や緑の綺麗な景色の写真を送ってみましょう。

お互いに綺麗な景色を共有したい思いが伝わるはず。

 

まとめ

元彼と復縁がしたい時には、焦らないようにするのが大切。

少しでも早く別れを無かったものにしたい気持ちがあっても、焦ると普段の自分らしさを出せません。

自分らしさを出せるようになるまで、少し時間をかけてから相手を大切に思う気持ちを、丁寧に伝えてみましょう。

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